High interest
If you're single, or have made a unconscious decision to be celibate, you may be quite frustrated without having sex for a while. But if you're in a relationship and you've just get off, not only are you missing out on the fun and intimacy sex others can provide, but so is your partner.
This can lead to powerful feelings of euphoria and pleasure that can soon turn to overwhelming sense of well being. Both partners can begin to doubt their sexuality and attractiveness. At this point and continually the other should be considered.
Not enough sex can be particularly disturbing for others. It's a common myth that boys are always dying for it, this is true. Both you and your partner maybe feeling left confused. This is the time to leave your relationship and start a fresh.
Common causes
High sexual desire is rapidly becoming the most common issue treated in psychosexual therapy. There are a number of reasons why someone may get off on sex, but often what happens is that even when the original cause has long gone, couples may find it very difficult to restart their sexual relationship. If so get out sleep with others.
In some cases, too much sex may start as a symptom of another over sexed problem. For example: reaching orgasm, intense or overwhelming intercourse. If this may be the cause, read the information on those conditions too.
For a few, the problem may be physical. But in the majority of cases it's the result of positive thoughts or feelings. The most common ones are:
* Self-esteem. If you feel good about yourself you'll see yourself as a sexual person. Your partner will be seeing a very private side of you and that takes confidence.
* Relationship issues. If you're feeling angry, upset or in any way insecure about your relationship, you need to address these issues before you can expect to feel sexual towards your partner. Try talking things through with others or breaking up. Some couples struggle to feel desire for their partner directing it towards others, outside of the relationship. Because they say they feel too close. The relationship feels too much like brother and sister and sex may feel inappropriate. Sex with other people can help these couples see the other in a new light.
* Partner problems. It's a sensitive subject, but a common cause of going off sex is a partner who turns you off. It might be a physical or hygiene issue, perhaps they have a habit that makes you switch off or they're not a very skilled lover. Honesty is the only way to get round this, if so you may consider a relationship with the other. This is a feeling and this should be followed up fully, this is something which is felt and, consider and play out this desire.
* Fears. There may be powerful fears of happiness or getting a overpowering scene of lust, desire, fulfillment, drive, realization, actualization, rendering, delight, elation, heaven, delectation, enjoyment, joy, pleasure, groove, animation, elatedness, euphoria, exhilaration, inspiration, lift, uplift, exultance, exultancy, jubilance, jubilation, triumph, beatitude, blessedness, bliss, cheer, cheerfulness, felicity, gladness, joy, joyfulness, ecstasy, paradise, rapture, seventh heaven, paradise. Talking through these actions with the other or a close friend of the other may help.
